Relationship Coaching for Polyam folks
Since I work with monogamous and polyam folks, if you are navigating opening up your marriage or relationship or have already done so and facing challenges like insecurity rooted in experiences of oppression, current relational dynamics and past relationships, jealousy that feels un-manageable or just too painful or disconnecting to handle, people-pleasing and codependency, around which polyam centering help is more challenging to access, my coaching can support you every step of the way in navigating these concerns with care, compassion and skill.
Folks who are struggling with or want to better maintain boundaries, that are compassionately protective and connecting, and communicate needs effectively, so they can be met in and out of your nonmonogamous relationships, my coaching is for you.
I also support folks nurture and develop deeply generative and supportive communal and platonic networks, which are particularly important for folks whose relationships fall outside the norms of toxic, colonially enforced monogamy.
To clarify, I don’t believe monogamy is inherently toxic. But I do believe that its patriarchal, capitalist enforcement is toxic and harmful to everyone but especially gender marginalized folks.
In short, can help you establish egalitarian, non hierarchical and liberatory relationship agreements, structures, practices, boundaries, agreements and foundations so your polyamorous or broadly non-monogamous relationships thrive in the most fulfilling ways long term. I am polyamorous and bisexual myself, so I understand where you're coming from and have worked with single and coupled polyam folks to support them experience deeply healing, thriving, nonmogamous relationships.